TALKING DIRTY IN BED-HOW TO SERVE IT RAW OR CLASSY

When it comes to talking dirty during sexual intercourse women have very different opinions. While some women find this act inappropriate and weird many others actually encourage their partners to use dirty words as this gets them really turned on. However,finding the right words to use when it comes to talking dirty in bed can be a huge problem for most guy mostly because they do not know the right language to use. Just because a woman likes her man saying dirty things during sex doesn't mean she likes to be called a "whore" or a "bitch",yes! some women enjoy the fantasy of being treated like a bad girl,but women are different from one another.

Finding out what your woman likes well before hand will put you in a better position to know how to approach this very delicate subject. Therefore,it is important that you study your partner to understand her vocabulary.Is she someone who uses vulgar terms fluently or does she prefer to use classy words to communicate? How does she like love making? Does she like to take things slowly and quietly, or is she more of a wild woman who likes to experiment? By studying her and finding answers to these questions you will find it a lot easier to pattern your language when talking dirty.

If you have no clue whether your your partner likes your dirty-talk meter set to "a little naughty" or "downright filthy,phrases as simple as "Oh, that's hot" or "That feels so good" are safe start to begin with and will get the temperatures rising.It is better to be safe than sorry when it comes to talking dirty during sex,having your partner take on a different persona can help you experiment with all sorts of dirty phrases you never thought you'd hear yourself say and If you're at a loss for words, tell your partner what hot, dirty things you would love for her to do. If she is already doing them, tell her how much you enjoy them. Also,having her tell you what she likes and what she wants you to do to her can be very helpful too and then as you do those things you can ask her if she enjoys it.

Good hot sex talk is linked to good quality communication in general. Treat your woman with respect. Talking dirty is totally different from talking trash. Avoid using words that belittles her and always remember that you are living out a fantasy with her. So that doesn't mean that she really thinks she is a bitch or what have you. Taking creative initiative and telling it like it is Whether she likes it a little naughty" or "downright filthy, adds some fun to your bedroom experience with your woman but keep in mind that sometimes silence can say so much too and talking dirty isn't necessary all the time during sex. The key is communication,the more comfortable you are talking to her out of bed, the easier it is to find out what she likes in bed.

HOW TO APPEAR CONFIDENT BY FAKING IT

Being confident can sometimes be misunderstood with being cocky because of their similar outward appearance but they actually differ when you take a deeper look at what confidence really means. While women are attracted to confidence in a man,they are usually turned off when they sense him as being cocky.As a man if you’re going to have any level of success with women, you’re going to have to be confident, or learn to fake it.

Women are very good at spotting confidence in a man and in fact,most women admit that it is the number one trait they find attractive in men. Traits like body posture,eye contact,speech patterns are what mostly speak about your level of confidence as a man. keeping a comfortably erect posture while looking right into a woman's eyes as you chat gives the impression that you are very confident. Also,try to keep your hands relaxed at all side or on the table maintaining a relaxed,slow and specific speech pattern while keeping the conversation focused around her other things in general.

Building confidence most times or at least learning to "fake it until you make it" can be very easy if you understand the problems that makes you to be nervous in the first place. For instance, many guys feel inferior when they go out because they meet people they think are well groomed and dress nicely than them and this could make them nervous. The solution for such a problem is to groom yourself well,take care of your nails,your haircut, mustache and beards and always dress good and above all smell nice,as this will help boost your confidence and draw the attention of the women who will find you attractive.

Guys who have successfully master the trick of faking confidence know that in most cases being a quiet listener can be a great tool. Nervous people always find themselves talking and talking about everything they know without giving the other person any chance to speak. Women generally love talking and being a good listener will help you conceal yourself and give you some level of depth and mystery that will make her want to discover you.Try to avoid smoking cigarettes before and during your meeting with her for the first time because apart from giving you smokers breathe,cigarettes contains nicotine which is a known stimulant that increases your blood pressure.Therefore,it is advisable that you have your smoke well before you plan to meet giving yourself the needed time to shower,brush your teeth and use your mouth wash to get rid of the fowl breath and also give your body adequate time to even out the nicotine and return to a more balanced state.

Although it takes time for you to master the craft of building your confidence but as you continue to practice you will see it gradually becoming your second nature and before long you will no longer need to fake it.Use your mind to build positive experiences and expectations by creating thoughts of confidence in your mind and your body will react and display that confidence.

MASTER THE ART OF SEDUCTION

For guys who aren't savvy with the art of wooing a woman this subject can be a difficult chase because of the tricky and moody nature of a woman's turn-on's and turn offs. Many guys rush right in, express their undying infatuation to a woman they like and expect everything to work out just fine only to get disappointed when they are turned down. The truth about wooing a woman successfully is that unless its a club setting where you are trying to hook up with her for a one night stand,many times the element of surprise doesn't produce a good result, therefore,it is better to warm her up by letting her sense your intentions and further reciprocate. The key is to make a great impression and get her to like you even before you ask her out.

The first step is to know the woman you like and then you can make a good impression that will catch her attention and make her interested in you.You must connect with her to get her to desire you emotionally and sexually. One easy way to get a woman's attention is to smell good because women are highly pumped by men that smell good.

Once you successfully catch her attention and started the process of getting to know each other you should make her feel comfortable around you and the best way to ease her up is to make her laugh. Women are generally drawn to guys with a sense of humor and once she feels comfortable and happy around you she will find it easier to let you warm your way into her heart. Contrary to what most guys believe,ignoring a woman or playing hard to get most times doesn't work unless she has already made up her mind to be with you therefore,you must be available to her at all times and give her enough attention such that deep inside her she feels incomplete whenever you aren't around.

Every woman wants a dependable guy,someone she can count on and If she feels grateful to have you around, she’s bound to think highly of you. It is important that you find ways to get her to think of you always,give her thoughtful gifts,text her late at night just before she sleeps or have a good-night phone conversation,this will get her interested in you before a few weeks.But you must try to avoid being "friends" with her,let her know that you are attracted to her from the beginning and do not fail to flirt with her and build a sexual chemistry otherwise you will end up in the friend zone like most guys.

Women love guys can tell stories in a passionate manner that intrigues them and make them dream of such experience.If she sense an adventure with you from the way that you talk and the way you see the world she would definitely want to be wrapped up in your reality. Give her something to dream about and treat her special because all women love romance so create a spontaneous passion filled with exciting and thriving adventure. There's nothing sexy in seriousness,so try to be playful with her but never lay all your cards on the table,maintain a mysterious personality and let her find you by being an unfolding story with no end filled with excitement all the way.

ART OF KISSING MADE EASY

When it comes to being intimate in a relationship kissing is usually the first step. Kissing is probably one of the best things you can do with your lips and it is a beautiful art that requires a lot of practice and skills to master.

There are so many ways to kiss a woman and be guaranteed that she would love it and if you are someone who has been rejected when you tried to kiss your partner before then this article will prove helpful to you a great deal.The question you should ask yourself however,is Were you too sexually demanding or did you have a strong breath odor? If you can’t find out the real reason, then you will fail in your attempt to kiss her again. When starting to kiss your partner it is advisable that you take it slow at first and then pick up the pace as you feel the passion rising.Below are a few was you can kiss your partner and get her to respond well.


1.Soft Lip kiss: This is mostly helpful at the beginning stage of intimacy between you and your partner especially if you are sharing a first kiss. When you are together alone with her and feel she is attracted to you,move your body forward and put one arm around her waist, with the other hand slightly touching her face as gently as possible, use your lips to touch her lips to show your wanting desire. Study her reaction for a strong desire and when you find it,you can hold her waist more firmly.

2. Face kiss:  Kissing all around the face, the eyelids, the cheeks, the forehead, the nose, and winding up with a long passionate kiss on the lips of your partner is a way of showing her how much you adore her. This will create a build up of excitement while satisfying both of you.

3.Lingering lip kiss: This type of kissing allows you to show your passion even though it is not erotic. It is usually done with the mouth closed and It mostly happens when one partner has just returned from a long trip.

4.French Kiss: This type of kissing stimulates both your tongues, lips and mouths and arouses both of your sexual desires if performed correctly. French kiss is always done when both partners are in a sexual mood, such as in bed at night time.However,in french kissing your partner you have to be careful with the amount of tongue you are using,too much tongue can ruin the excitement so instead of focusing entirely on using your tongue, try alternating it with some sensual touching and rubbing.

5.Reverse lip kiss : This allows you kiss your partner upside-down when she is lying down or seated by reaching from behind and have them tilt their head backwards while you lower down your head and gently kiss her lower lip,feeling her breathe on your neck.

Timing is very important when it comes to kissing. You must be attentive enough to know when to and when not to kiss a woman.It is awfully wrong to ask her if you can kiss her because women, in general, like it when their man takes charge but remember to always go slow and enjoy the kiss by making it last for as long as possible and you will leave her gasping for breath and wanting more.

3 EASY WAYS TO BOOST YOUR ERECTION NATURALLY

In treating this very important subject,first let us examine how an erection is achieved. Erection of the penis involves a cooperation between the brain, blood vessels, hormones and nerves. It starts from the brain as a process that comes from the result of a psychological or physical stimulation,as a result of which the brain then sends signals to the nerves of the penis. It is these signals that relaxes the muscles in the blood vessels enabling the tissues in the penis to open wider and blood then rushes through the vessels in the penis causing it to become hard and erect.

Over the years scientist have made a connection between a man's sexual activity and good health. To achieve a hard rock erection, man needs his heart and brain functioning at high capacity. Also,his testosterone levels and weight must be normal with perfect working blood vessels. Impotence can be caused by many factors such as stress, depression, high blood pressure or smoking and they occur mostly when a man gets old. However,in rare cases it does happen to the younger men even though a few actually admit it.

It is important to state that impotence is not a life threatening disease but it can cause men to worry and occupies their minds thus depriving them the enjoyment of sexual stimulation for fear of not being able to achieve an erection. This however,can ruin a relationship when the men are not open with their partners so that they can both seek help.

A perfect erection occurs when the width and length is fully erect and there are three (3) natural ways of achieving this.

1. What you eat: What you eat affects your sexual health a great deal because erection needs good blood circulation, thick blood and normal testosterone levels.Therefore,eating the right foods and maintaining a healthy diet will help you achieve and sustain a perfect erection and some the  food that will help boost erection includes;

Eggs-rich in vitamins B6 and B5 which will contribute to a healthy libido.
Oats- rich in fiber which will clean up your blood vessels.
Bananas- are good for your heart and blood circulation.
Oysters-rich in Zinc which will boost up your testosterone production.

2.Regular exercise:Activities such as Jogging,weight lifting or stair climbing can help in blood circulation that is need for a rock hard erection. By cultivating the habit of exercising you will become not only physically fit but it will also help reduce your chances of getting high blood pressure or hypertension.

3.Boost your testosterone: Men’s sex drive and are fueled by testosterone and low levels of testosterone can affect a man’s erection.  One way to boost your testosterone levels is to Reduce stress and get enough Sleep.

By following these 3 easy natural steps and living a healthy lifestyle you can gain a perfect erection without the use of pills and other substance.stay healthy.

WHY OLDER WOMEN CHOOSE YOUNGER MEN

This subject no doubt has caused a lot of stir in society with most people seeing it as some sort of a taboo for an older woman to date or even marry a younger man. Since men have been dating younger women for ages, one marvels at the double standard at which society operates even though the cry for gender equality has never been louder as it were today.

Definitely women are feeling more empowered,younger and more vital than they have ever been and they desire to live it in every area of their lives including the bedroom.While sex is a part of the reason women choose younger men, it's not the whole reason. Women have made their marks in every area of human endeavor and in some cases much more than their male counterparts and thus do not want to be given status by a man. Older women desire fun and romance that in most cases they don't get from the older men. It is wrong to therefore assume that older women seek younger men for purely sexual reasons because the relationship between a younger man and an older woman is likely to last for reasons that go beyond their daily sex life such as compatibility in goals,ideas,reasoning and level of maturity.

Some other benefits older women consider before dating younger men are the facts that younger men do not bring issues such as an ex-wife or kids that she has to deal with,they are usually more willing to learn and this makes the woman feels she has someone who appreciates the value of her life experience and are often more attractive, With great stamina in the bedroom to match up with her needs.

This days women know they don't need a man who is more educated and makes more money to take care of all their needs because they are self sufficient. Older women are more concerned with what is the right type of guy for them and this means they are not restricted by the old boundaries of age difference. The bottom line for her is finding happiness even in places she least expect it.

HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX

Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired their female partners to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just as much as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex lacks good morals and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.When you are together,the trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft jazz music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.


HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX

Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired the female partner to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just the same way as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex is a slut and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step as when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.The trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction with your touch.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.