Saturday 6 July 2013

BEING THE LADIES MAN


In trying to be the man women want,guys have had to go the extra mile of pretending to be who and sometimes what they are not just to get approval and admiration and many times they often come off short and left devastated when everything eventually falls apart. Age has nothing to do with maturity in a relationship however,its important to point out that women aren't very attracted to little boys. most guys have some growing up to do in order to be the kind of guy that women are naturally attracted to by putting away the inner little boy and maturing into the masculine man that they ought to be. This has nothing to do with age or body size.

The first step to success here is learning to attract Women by being yourself. By accepting yourself for who you are and what you stand for you will always show forth a certain amount of confidence and women find this quality very attractive in a guy. The problem is a lot of guys don't know what they stand for and are often covered in the shadows of other guys who might not even be as nice to these women as themselves. Don't try to be anybody else or think that you don't have anything to make a woman attracted to you as a guy because then you would have succeed in pushing her away as no woman wants a guy who thinks low of himself. This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant or cocky. It just means you know what you want and how to get it and you are not ready to settle for less than the best.

Secondly,you must understand that women like men who can take charge. She expects you to take charge. Guys who date older women often try to follow the woman who doesn't want to lead mostly because she might be richer and more exposed to the world, and when she doesn't lead, he tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seeks approval. This puts him at a disadvantage because even though she may resist him taking charge all the times at first, but she’ll love him for it in the end. Be personally responsible for yourself,your thoughts and your situations by not playing the victim in life. Make your own choices and never give anyone the power to take your happiness.

Younger men who date older women mostly give their powers away to get approval from these women or to get on her good side but even though it sounds like the right thing to do,it never works. Why else do you think women are often powerfully attracted to guys who are tagged "world class scumbags" by nice guys? The fact is that a woman doesn't really find a guy attractive when he constantly needs her to need him. Do not feel left out when she needs to do something by herself and cultivate the habit of doing things without her. Don't feel jealous when she enjoys the things she does alone without you and learn to enjoy the things you do without her. In other words,learn to create room for both of you to spend time alone without each other. By doing all of these things you will constantly grow yourself into the real manhood and not just a little boy stuck in a mans body.

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