BEING THE LADIES MAN

In trying to be the man women want,guys have had to go the extra mile of pretending to be who and sometimes what they are not just to get approval and admiration and many times they often come off short and left devastated when everything eventually falls apart. Age has nothing to do with maturity in a relationship however,its important to point out that women aren't very attracted to little boys. most guys have some growing up to do in order to be the kind of guy that women are naturally attracted to by putting away the inner little boy and maturing into the masculine man that they ought to be. This has nothing to do with age or body size.

The first step to success here is learning to attract Women by being yourself. By accepting yourself for who you are and what you stand for you will always show forth a certain amount of confidence and women find this quality very attractive in a guy. The problem is a lot of guys don't know what they stand for and are often covered in the shadows of other guys who might not even be as nice to these women as themselves. Don't try to be anybody else or think that you don't have anything to make a woman attracted to you as a guy because then you would have succeed in pushing her away as no woman wants a guy who thinks low of himself. This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant or cocky. It just means you know what you want and how to get it and you are not ready to settle for less than the best.

Secondly,you must understand that women like men who can take charge. She expects you to take charge. Guys who date older women often try to follow the woman who doesn't want to lead mostly because she might be richer and more exposed to the world, and when she doesn't lead, he tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seeks approval. This puts him at a disadvantage because even though she may resist him taking charge all the times at first, but she’ll love him for it in the end. Be personally responsible for yourself,your thoughts and your situations by not playing the victim in life. Make your own choices and never give anyone the power to take your happiness.

Younger men who date older women mostly give their powers away to get approval from these women or to get on her good side but even though it sounds like the right thing to do,it never works. Why else do you think women are often powerfully attracted to guys who are tagged "world class scumbags" by nice guys? The fact is that a woman doesn't really find a guy attractive when he constantly needs her to need him. Do not feel left out when she needs to do something by herself and cultivate the habit of doing things without her. Don't feel jealous when she enjoys the things she does alone without you and learn to enjoy the things you do without her. In other words,learn to create room for both of you to spend time alone without each other. By doing all of these things you will constantly grow yourself into the real manhood and not just a little boy stuck in a mans body.

SEXY AND THE OLDER WOMAN

Considering the misconception about women’s sexuality and desirability after a “certain age," which has been propagated in the minds of millions of men around the world through advertising there is the wrongful thinking that sexy can only be determined by youthfulness and older women aren't thought to be "sexy" in today's world.

The myth that women don’t need sex as they get older is one that has been deeply instilled in the minds of many and therefore makes it very important that we address this issue. The fact that a woman is over 40 doesn't mean that she needs sex any less than other things that brings joy, satisfaction and better emotional and physical health. Sex is an important physical exercise that helps get blood flowing through the pumping of the heart, bringing nutrients to all the other parts of the body and also helping to eliminates waste.

Engaging in vigorous physical exercises like sexual activities regularly may help burn those extra pounds and makes the bodies of older women "firmer". This is not to say that older women are not suppose to enjoy sex because enjoying sex isn't about how you look, but how you feel. The idea that being sexy means one has to be thin and young is only a misconception that has been sold through advertising for years. However,it is beneficial to human health to engage in regular physical exercise not necessarily to feel sexy but to stay healthy.Many times,a lot of women in their 40's may feel uncomfortable with their skin and wish they were half their age,but the truth is simple and that is a firm body isn't all that really defines sexiness. Humor,compassion and experience have greater roles to play and an older woman knows what she wants in bed which men actually attribute to being sexy.

The changes in a woman's body when she enters premenopause doesn't make it less sexual. women in their 40's will likely experience irregular periods, mood changes and lack of vaginal lubrication which will affect their sex life. But the body doesn't stop being sexual as a result of these changes. For guys who lack such knowledge about a woman's anatomy they are likely going to have bigger problems with their partners with when these changes occur. But these are normal changes that can be handles with understanding and experimentation because older women often have higher sex drives than the younger ones.

SIMPLE RULES TO CREATE FUN AND INTIMACY WITH A WOMAN

Every woman loves spending time alone with her man. Although sometimes both partners may get so busy that they neglect their relationship chasing money and other accomplishments and as a result may not have enough time for each other.  A man must understand the need to take out time to be alone with his woman. Spend a whole day to Watch a movie, give her a back massage, snuggle and be intimate. Learn to  put other thoughts aside and focus completely on your woman. This helps in rebuilding lost connections, which is really what we all desire in our lives. It is important to schedule a bit of alone-time with  your woman regularly.

Real men know the value of putting the needs of their partners above and ahead of theirs after all they say love is selfless and making your woman's happiness a priority gives her the confidence that you care about her very much.However,this doesn't mean that you have to be a wuss or become spineless,on the contrary it just means that you are willing to bend for her sometimes even when she least expect you to. Learn to listen to her and be her best friend and confidant even when you aren't interested in what she is talking about. Ignoring her especially when you are with friends will give a wrong signal that she is not important to you as much as your friends.

We all know that every woman likes romance and deep down every woman has a romance fairy tale where she is the star so learn to be romantic. Women wants guys with a sense of romance that can make them feel special. Tell your woman how lucky you are that you found her. Tell her that from the moment you first saw her, you knew she was special. This is a great way to be romantic. Write her an old fashioned letter and express your love and affection for her. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because.Small things like a magazine you know she likes, her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way to show her you think about her with deep affection.Being romantic is all about taking what you know about her and making them mean much to you.Remember what she likes to eat and cook it for her Or remember what songs make her want to dance, laugh, and cry, and make a mix for her.

Most importantly,you must understand that being intimate is not all about sex for a woman. Guys have a much different sexual drive than women. For women, it's not about the sex itself, but rather about the intimacy or closeness that she shares with you. If she thinks that all you want from her is sex, she's probably not going to give it to you. If she believes that she's all you want, then eventually she'll give all of herself to you.

MALE CONFIDENCE AND HOW TO TAKE CHARGE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Many guys who date older women often find it hard to be in control as "men". A lot of guys think because these women most times are more successful and have more experience in life,that automatically makes the women the head and they continually seek approval before taking actions of any kind. However,what these guys fail to understand is that women no matter how rich and powerful they are in their social and corporate circle, when it comes to personal issues of love, relationship,and dating,women are not looking for "boys" but men who can take charge.

Taking charge as a man with an older woman has nothing to do with age but maturity of the mind. Women generally,like men who are bold and confident enough to do and make them do things they never imagined. There are a lot of mistakes guys make with older women such as asking a woman if you can kiss her? This only makes you appear as a boy and takes away the magic in a kiss. instead of asking if you can kiss a woman,the better thing to do is to study her to know if she is sexually attracted to you and then reach out and give her a kiss.

Some guys develop cold feet when asking a woman out on a date and when they finally get the courage to make that move,their approach although may sound polite but they get turned down eventually. Asking a woman if you can take her out sometimes for example might sound to guys like a great way to hit on a woman but women do not want you to ask for their permission to hit on them. They enjoy it and crave to be with men that has got it together and know how to take control. Talk to her about a great place you know and confidently  tell her you should hang out together. This will help create excitement if you can paint a great picture and fill her mind with beautiful fantasies and she will be glad to give you her number. Also, keep in mind that women like men who have laid out plans and directions and not guys who do not know what they want to do and how they intend to go about it,so after you have her number and you intend to hang out for the evening,always make sure you have a back-up plan if everything goes well and the sparks are sent flying in the air. Asking a woman what she wants to do after the evening is a buzz kill. Take charge and lead the way and if she is attracted to you already then she will follow you to the end of the earth.

Women find men more attractive when they sense you have a high level of self confidence and if she is hanging out late with you or talking to you on the phone late into the night then know that she really likes you and asking her to confirm if she likes you will only portray you in the wrong light as lacking confidence. This is the same thing as bragging about your work accomplishment or sexual prowess. Women do not find men who try too hard to impress them attractive and often end up dating the guys who do not pay them as much attention as you do by boasting.

Finally,always maintain a deep character when dating a woman and get her to try to get you out from your shells. This means you must let her discover your personality cause the more time she invest trying to know you the deeper she falls for you. Telling her everything about your history makes it uninteresting for her and puts you at a disadvantage. Talking less,listening more is the key.

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SEXTING

As the world changes with modern technology now playing important roles in our daily lives, dating and relationships have also been greatly influenced by the discovery of the internet and most recently smart phones. Modes of communication with people are fast changing and so is the way we flirt. One of the recent and modern development in communication is sending text messages and emails. This article will try to look at a trend in flirting called "As the world changes with modern technology now playing important roles in our daily lives, dating and relationships have also been greatly influenced by the discovery of the internet and most recently smart phones. Modes of communication with people are fast changing and so is the way we flirt. One of the recent and modern development in communication is sending text messages and emails. This article will try to look at a trend in flirting called "SEXTING" which is basically the sending of erotic pictures or statements via emails or text messages.

According to Lindsay Goto,"Surveys have shown that women are more likely to sext than males. Some surveys list the numbers as high as 60% for women who sext while males tend to be closer to 50%. Whether it is because males feel like they have more to prove in terms of how they perform even in sexting and it makes them uncomfortable or just because women like reading their sex rather than seeing it, women love to sex with an abandon".

Most guys still have questions such as, “Should I Send Her A sext? When can i send a sext? And What Do I Say?

The benefit of sexting is that it allows both partners to have an intimate experience even if they are far apart. But for sexting to happen effectively you must have had a previous conversation about sex or you are already having sex with the woman. You can not just do it with a total stranger or someone who doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. Now,what most guys do not realize is that women in general love men who know how to tease seductive without revealing everything in one swipe. Keep it simple and fun filled,baiting her and being subliminal with your messages. While some women want to hear a lot of dirty talk others just prefer to be teased and intrigued by the reference you make about sex without actually telling them you want to have sex with them. Women always need to be warmed up  before they begin to boil unlike the men who would be happy to receive a sext saying,"Last night was fucking great. I really wanted to bang you again tonight". Learn to tease her like a lady and warm her up.

Talk about the experience you had with her,how great the conversation was and then bait her to see if she will run with it. Sexting is the best form of foreplay in our new technological world. Women get more sexually aroused before a date by men who know how to sext. The key is not to go kinky first and learn to follow the signals that your partner is giving rather than focusing on your own fantasies.

 " which is basically the sending of erotic pictures or statements via emails or text messages.

According to Lindsay Goto,"Surveys have shown that women are more likely to sext than males. Some surveys list the numbers as high as 60% for women who sext while males tend to be closer to 50%. Whether it is because males feel like they have more to prove in terms of how they perform even in sexting and it makes them uncomfortable or just because women like reading their sex rather than seeing it, women love to sex with an abandon".

Most guys still have questions such as, “Should I Send Her A sext? When can i send a sext? And What Do I Say?

The benefit of sexting is that it allows both partners to have an intimate experience even if they are far apart. But for sexting to happen effectively you must have had a previous conversation about sex or you are already having sex with the woman. You can not just do it with a total stranger or someone who doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. Now,what most guys do not realize is that women in general love men who know how to tease seductive without revealing everything in one swipe. Keep it simple and fun filled,baiting her and being subliminal with your messages. While some women want to hear a lot of dirty talk others just prefer to be teased and intrigued by the reference you make about sex without actually telling them you want to have sex with them. Women always need to be warmed up  before they begin to boil unlike the men who would be happy to receive a sext saying,"Last night was fucking great. I really wanted to bang you again tonight". Learn to tease her like a lady and warm her up.

Talk about the experience you had with her,how great the conversation was and then bait her to see if she will run with it. Sexting is the best form of foreplay in our new technological world. Women get more sexually aroused before a date by men who know how to sext. The key is not to go kinky first and learn to follow the signals that your partner is giving rather than focusing on your own fantasies.

TRICKS TO DATE A RICHER WOMAN

How can I date someone who is making more money than me? This the very question that most young men worry about too often especially in a situation where they would never admit the truth for fear of loosing their target (miss moneybags). Well,the smart guys never worry about this because they know the rules of engagement. This article will help you keep up in the race without feeling outgunned even though you already know the truth.

First,whatever you do,never lie about your financial status to a richer woman but do not admit you are broke either. The secret is to keep a mysterious persona. There are over a million ways to make any woman happy without spending your money if you actually have any. A richer woman is not going to need you to support her financially or buy her a pretty dress either so you don't have to worry about spending. Rather,focus your energy on creating beautiful experiences that she couldn't buy with her money. The truth is as a rich woman she can buy herself so many nice things and there are probably so many guys who will be willing to give her expensive gifts without putting time and effort into creating that magic in the moment that will melt her heart.

It is very important that you keep up a good appearance always. The idea is to use what you have to your advantage and since you don't need to have a million dollars in your bank account to work out  around your home then you can actually impress her with a toned body as clothes will look better on you even if they aren't expensive designer suits. Also,dressing in a color like white makes you seem richer than you truly are on paper. Find out where important people hang out such as an exclusive fitness center or the country club and find a way to get in there. Remember,the idea is to put the thought in her head that you are an important person even if you are not. So,hanging out where important people hang out will help drive the impression even if you don't say a word.

Once you have the woman's attention then you can walk up to her with confidence and introduce yourself. Make small talks and try to find out what she likes and always pay attention to every little detail. if you work as an "office assistant" to the director of a company for instance,you might want to make your position sound prestigious a little by calling it "executive assistant" and if you happen to be a guy without a job then it is helpful if you have a career of your own. Saying you are a freelance photographer or journalist or studying to be one makes you sound ambitious and women love men that are driven and ambitious. Even if you are broke now, they want to be certain that investing their attention in you will not become futile in the end. Learn to talk to her in a way others don't by never sucking up to her because of her wealth. Treat her like you would treat any other person after all she is flesh and blood and wants to feel like one otherwise,you will lose her attention by becoming intimidated by her fat wallet.

The secret for dating richer women is to actually date them and this is where most guys have troubles because then they think they have to spend money which they mostly never have to impress these women but the truth is you don't have to take her to the finest restaurants to win her heart. Take her to places that are free such as the park,a walk on the beach or even a home made candlelit dinner would spark the magic. Its all about giving her an experience which others will not and making her feel special too. Help her to feel relaxed in your company by making her laugh and have fun and you will slowly warm your way into her heart.

Finally,whatever you do,never forget to rock her world in the bedroom.

HELPING YOUR WOMAN BUILD HER SEXUAL SELF ESTEEM

The idea that a woman can sometimes lack sexual self esteem is one that comes as a surprise to many men especially because most of these women have real sexual appealing looks with the way they dress,the shapes of their bodies and even their charisma. During sex for instance,many women find themselves sometimes criticizing their every move and feeling they may not be on their A-game. This could lead to a lose-lose situation for both parties because when a woman doesn't feel pleasure from having sex it weighs down on the mans self esteem and ego which is why you need to know how to get your woman back into the game by learning to boost her self esteem.

Sexy is a state of mind.If a woman, does not like herself inside and out, it is very difficult for her to share herself freely and fully with her man and this could create a vacuum in their sex life. Therefore,the more educated about a womans body you are as a man the more you are able to get her back in the game when you sense a disconnect. Women reach their sexual peak later in life than men,for many women, it can take years to figure out not only what feels good, but also to build up the confidence to communicate their desires with their partners. Most women still do not feel comfortable with their genitals and do not feel like their vulvas are their most attractive feature this is why her man must let her know how much he totally worship her body, the way she taste, smell and move, and chances are that she will start to loosen up and get out of her head and back into her body (and her sexual self-esteem will rise, too)making her more comfortable.


Also patience is key for guys to help their partners overcome low sexual self esteem and this is because even though it takes the average man about three minutes to have an orgasm,women on the other hand need about twenty minutes of direct clitoral stimulation to have theirs. A situation where a woman feels pressured to have an orgasm can be much of a buzz kill during sexual intercourse. The more relaxed women feel during love making the better they function because its really about the state of the mind and just because she isn't having an orgasm yet doesn't mean she's not actually having a great time.The sexuality of a woman is product of her mindset and  Having healthy, positive and productive thoughts, core beliefs, feelings, and attitudes helps in building a solid sexy foundation for her to thrive. In most cases,women who lack sexual self esteem have been programmed by society and their parents especially their mothers to believe that women are not to be sexually active and because their minds have been fed with such orientation for a long period it becomes very difficult sometimes to get them to break off even when they are married.

The importance and benefits of helping your woman build her sexual self esteem can not be underplayed because it will help create more intimacy and a stronger bond in your relationship apart from the pleasurable benefits that you will both achieve which will also bring joy and satisfaction in other areas of your lives.

TALKING DIRTY IN BED-HOW TO SERVE IT RAW OR CLASSY

When it comes to talking dirty during sexual intercourse women have very different opinions. While some women find this act inappropriate and weird many others actually encourage their partners to use dirty words as this gets them really turned on. However,finding the right words to use when it comes to talking dirty in bed can be a huge problem for most guy mostly because they do not know the right language to use. Just because a woman likes her man saying dirty things during sex doesn't mean she likes to be called a "whore" or a "bitch",yes! some women enjoy the fantasy of being treated like a bad girl,but women are different from one another.

Finding out what your woman likes well before hand will put you in a better position to know how to approach this very delicate subject. Therefore,it is important that you study your partner to understand her vocabulary.Is she someone who uses vulgar terms fluently or does she prefer to use classy words to communicate? How does she like love making? Does she like to take things slowly and quietly, or is she more of a wild woman who likes to experiment? By studying her and finding answers to these questions you will find it a lot easier to pattern your language when talking dirty.

If you have no clue whether your your partner likes your dirty-talk meter set to "a little naughty" or "downright filthy,phrases as simple as "Oh, that's hot" or "That feels so good" are safe start to begin with and will get the temperatures rising.It is better to be safe than sorry when it comes to talking dirty during sex,having your partner take on a different persona can help you experiment with all sorts of dirty phrases you never thought you'd hear yourself say and If you're at a loss for words, tell your partner what hot, dirty things you would love for her to do. If she is already doing them, tell her how much you enjoy them. Also,having her tell you what she likes and what she wants you to do to her can be very helpful too and then as you do those things you can ask her if she enjoys it.

Good hot sex talk is linked to good quality communication in general. Treat your woman with respect. Talking dirty is totally different from talking trash. Avoid using words that belittles her and always remember that you are living out a fantasy with her. So that doesn't mean that she really thinks she is a bitch or what have you. Taking creative initiative and telling it like it is Whether she likes it a little naughty" or "downright filthy, adds some fun to your bedroom experience with your woman but keep in mind that sometimes silence can say so much too and talking dirty isn't necessary all the time during sex. The key is communication,the more comfortable you are talking to her out of bed, the easier it is to find out what she likes in bed.

HOW TO APPEAR CONFIDENT BY FAKING IT

Being confident can sometimes be misunderstood with being cocky because of their similar outward appearance but they actually differ when you take a deeper look at what confidence really means. While women are attracted to confidence in a man,they are usually turned off when they sense him as being cocky.As a man if you’re going to have any level of success with women, you’re going to have to be confident, or learn to fake it.

Women are very good at spotting confidence in a man and in fact,most women admit that it is the number one trait they find attractive in men. Traits like body posture,eye contact,speech patterns are what mostly speak about your level of confidence as a man. keeping a comfortably erect posture while looking right into a woman's eyes as you chat gives the impression that you are very confident. Also,try to keep your hands relaxed at all side or on the table maintaining a relaxed,slow and specific speech pattern while keeping the conversation focused around her other things in general.

Building confidence most times or at least learning to "fake it until you make it" can be very easy if you understand the problems that makes you to be nervous in the first place. For instance, many guys feel inferior when they go out because they meet people they think are well groomed and dress nicely than them and this could make them nervous. The solution for such a problem is to groom yourself well,take care of your nails,your haircut, mustache and beards and always dress good and above all smell nice,as this will help boost your confidence and draw the attention of the women who will find you attractive.

Guys who have successfully master the trick of faking confidence know that in most cases being a quiet listener can be a great tool. Nervous people always find themselves talking and talking about everything they know without giving the other person any chance to speak. Women generally love talking and being a good listener will help you conceal yourself and give you some level of depth and mystery that will make her want to discover you.Try to avoid smoking cigarettes before and during your meeting with her for the first time because apart from giving you smokers breathe,cigarettes contains nicotine which is a known stimulant that increases your blood pressure.Therefore,it is advisable that you have your smoke well before you plan to meet giving yourself the needed time to shower,brush your teeth and use your mouth wash to get rid of the fowl breath and also give your body adequate time to even out the nicotine and return to a more balanced state.

Although it takes time for you to master the craft of building your confidence but as you continue to practice you will see it gradually becoming your second nature and before long you will no longer need to fake it.Use your mind to build positive experiences and expectations by creating thoughts of confidence in your mind and your body will react and display that confidence.

MASTER THE ART OF SEDUCTION

For guys who aren't savvy with the art of wooing a woman this subject can be a difficult chase because of the tricky and moody nature of a woman's turn-on's and turn offs. Many guys rush right in, express their undying infatuation to a woman they like and expect everything to work out just fine only to get disappointed when they are turned down. The truth about wooing a woman successfully is that unless its a club setting where you are trying to hook up with her for a one night stand,many times the element of surprise doesn't produce a good result, therefore,it is better to warm her up by letting her sense your intentions and further reciprocate. The key is to make a great impression and get her to like you even before you ask her out.

The first step is to know the woman you like and then you can make a good impression that will catch her attention and make her interested in you.You must connect with her to get her to desire you emotionally and sexually. One easy way to get a woman's attention is to smell good because women are highly pumped by men that smell good.

Once you successfully catch her attention and started the process of getting to know each other you should make her feel comfortable around you and the best way to ease her up is to make her laugh. Women are generally drawn to guys with a sense of humor and once she feels comfortable and happy around you she will find it easier to let you warm your way into her heart. Contrary to what most guys believe,ignoring a woman or playing hard to get most times doesn't work unless she has already made up her mind to be with you therefore,you must be available to her at all times and give her enough attention such that deep inside her she feels incomplete whenever you aren't around.

Every woman wants a dependable guy,someone she can count on and If she feels grateful to have you around, she’s bound to think highly of you. It is important that you find ways to get her to think of you always,give her thoughtful gifts,text her late at night just before she sleeps or have a good-night phone conversation,this will get her interested in you before a few weeks.But you must try to avoid being "friends" with her,let her know that you are attracted to her from the beginning and do not fail to flirt with her and build a sexual chemistry otherwise you will end up in the friend zone like most guys.

Women love guys can tell stories in a passionate manner that intrigues them and make them dream of such experience.If she sense an adventure with you from the way that you talk and the way you see the world she would definitely want to be wrapped up in your reality. Give her something to dream about and treat her special because all women love romance so create a spontaneous passion filled with exciting and thriving adventure. There's nothing sexy in seriousness,so try to be playful with her but never lay all your cards on the table,maintain a mysterious personality and let her find you by being an unfolding story with no end filled with excitement all the way.

ART OF KISSING MADE EASY

When it comes to being intimate in a relationship kissing is usually the first step. Kissing is probably one of the best things you can do with your lips and it is a beautiful art that requires a lot of practice and skills to master.

There are so many ways to kiss a woman and be guaranteed that she would love it and if you are someone who has been rejected when you tried to kiss your partner before then this article will prove helpful to you a great deal.The question you should ask yourself however,is Were you too sexually demanding or did you have a strong breath odor? If you can’t find out the real reason, then you will fail in your attempt to kiss her again. When starting to kiss your partner it is advisable that you take it slow at first and then pick up the pace as you feel the passion rising.Below are a few was you can kiss your partner and get her to respond well.


1.Soft Lip kiss: This is mostly helpful at the beginning stage of intimacy between you and your partner especially if you are sharing a first kiss. When you are together alone with her and feel she is attracted to you,move your body forward and put one arm around her waist, with the other hand slightly touching her face as gently as possible, use your lips to touch her lips to show your wanting desire. Study her reaction for a strong desire and when you find it,you can hold her waist more firmly.

2. Face kiss:  Kissing all around the face, the eyelids, the cheeks, the forehead, the nose, and winding up with a long passionate kiss on the lips of your partner is a way of showing her how much you adore her. This will create a build up of excitement while satisfying both of you.

3.Lingering lip kiss: This type of kissing allows you to show your passion even though it is not erotic. It is usually done with the mouth closed and It mostly happens when one partner has just returned from a long trip.

4.French Kiss: This type of kissing stimulates both your tongues, lips and mouths and arouses both of your sexual desires if performed correctly. French kiss is always done when both partners are in a sexual mood, such as in bed at night time.However,in french kissing your partner you have to be careful with the amount of tongue you are using,too much tongue can ruin the excitement so instead of focusing entirely on using your tongue, try alternating it with some sensual touching and rubbing.

5.Reverse lip kiss : This allows you kiss your partner upside-down when she is lying down or seated by reaching from behind and have them tilt their head backwards while you lower down your head and gently kiss her lower lip,feeling her breathe on your neck.

Timing is very important when it comes to kissing. You must be attentive enough to know when to and when not to kiss a woman.It is awfully wrong to ask her if you can kiss her because women, in general, like it when their man takes charge but remember to always go slow and enjoy the kiss by making it last for as long as possible and you will leave her gasping for breath and wanting more.

3 EASY WAYS TO BOOST YOUR ERECTION NATURALLY

In treating this very important subject,first let us examine how an erection is achieved. Erection of the penis involves a cooperation between the brain, blood vessels, hormones and nerves. It starts from the brain as a process that comes from the result of a psychological or physical stimulation,as a result of which the brain then sends signals to the nerves of the penis. It is these signals that relaxes the muscles in the blood vessels enabling the tissues in the penis to open wider and blood then rushes through the vessels in the penis causing it to become hard and erect.

Over the years scientist have made a connection between a man's sexual activity and good health. To achieve a hard rock erection, man needs his heart and brain functioning at high capacity. Also,his testosterone levels and weight must be normal with perfect working blood vessels. Impotence can be caused by many factors such as stress, depression, high blood pressure or smoking and they occur mostly when a man gets old. However,in rare cases it does happen to the younger men even though a few actually admit it.

It is important to state that impotence is not a life threatening disease but it can cause men to worry and occupies their minds thus depriving them the enjoyment of sexual stimulation for fear of not being able to achieve an erection. This however,can ruin a relationship when the men are not open with their partners so that they can both seek help.

A perfect erection occurs when the width and length is fully erect and there are three (3) natural ways of achieving this.

1. What you eat: What you eat affects your sexual health a great deal because erection needs good blood circulation, thick blood and normal testosterone levels.Therefore,eating the right foods and maintaining a healthy diet will help you achieve and sustain a perfect erection and some the  food that will help boost erection includes;

Eggs-rich in vitamins B6 and B5 which will contribute to a healthy libido.
Oats- rich in fiber which will clean up your blood vessels.
Bananas- are good for your heart and blood circulation.
Oysters-rich in Zinc which will boost up your testosterone production.

2.Regular exercise:Activities such as Jogging,weight lifting or stair climbing can help in blood circulation that is need for a rock hard erection. By cultivating the habit of exercising you will become not only physically fit but it will also help reduce your chances of getting high blood pressure or hypertension.

3.Boost your testosterone: Men’s sex drive and are fueled by testosterone and low levels of testosterone can affect a man’s erection.  One way to boost your testosterone levels is to Reduce stress and get enough Sleep.

By following these 3 easy natural steps and living a healthy lifestyle you can gain a perfect erection without the use of pills and other substance.stay healthy.

WHY OLDER WOMEN CHOOSE YOUNGER MEN

This subject no doubt has caused a lot of stir in society with most people seeing it as some sort of a taboo for an older woman to date or even marry a younger man. Since men have been dating younger women for ages, one marvels at the double standard at which society operates even though the cry for gender equality has never been louder as it were today.

Definitely women are feeling more empowered,younger and more vital than they have ever been and they desire to live it in every area of their lives including the bedroom.While sex is a part of the reason women choose younger men, it's not the whole reason. Women have made their marks in every area of human endeavor and in some cases much more than their male counterparts and thus do not want to be given status by a man. Older women desire fun and romance that in most cases they don't get from the older men. It is wrong to therefore assume that older women seek younger men for purely sexual reasons because the relationship between a younger man and an older woman is likely to last for reasons that go beyond their daily sex life such as compatibility in goals,ideas,reasoning and level of maturity.

Some other benefits older women consider before dating younger men are the facts that younger men do not bring issues such as an ex-wife or kids that she has to deal with,they are usually more willing to learn and this makes the woman feels she has someone who appreciates the value of her life experience and are often more attractive, With great stamina in the bedroom to match up with her needs.

This days women know they don't need a man who is more educated and makes more money to take care of all their needs because they are self sufficient. Older women are more concerned with what is the right type of guy for them and this means they are not restricted by the old boundaries of age difference. The bottom line for her is finding happiness even in places she least expect it.

HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX

Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired their female partners to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just as much as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex lacks good morals and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.When you are together,the trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft jazz music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.


HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX

Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired the female partner to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just the same way as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex is a slut and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step as when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.The trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction with your touch.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.

ALL ABOUT THE G-SPOT

A lot of stories have been told about the G-spot,whether it truly exist and if every woman has it.The G-spot which is totally different from the clitoris is an area in the woman's vagina which was discovered by a German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg in 1944. This spot is located on the front wall of the vagina about 1-2 inches inside and is said to increase in size with stimulation which mostly results into a powerful kind of female orgasm and in some women ejaculation also known as "squirting". For those who may not be quite familiar with the female anatomy,The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button. The G-spot however,is a bean shaped spongy tissue which is similar to the male prostate.It is made up of erectile tissue and thus swells up when blood rush to it.

The easiest way to find the G-spot is to face your partner while she is lying on her back and  insert your index or middle finger inside the vagina as far as it will go easily then crook it up towards yourself in a "come here" motion as you slide your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.The rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot.

Sometimes it may require a fair amount of pressure to locate the G-spot because it is within and not outside the vagina wall. However because all women are not sensitive to G-spot stimulation you might not get a special reaction so do not get discouraged if this happens.While some women get multiple orgasm with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot some others find it discomforting but the good news is that as you continue to search for this spot you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to more favorably.

Apart from using the fingers to stimulate the G-spot,many women enjoy penile stimulation during sexual intercourse especially if the guy has a penis with an upward bend.As for the guys who do not have this bend in their penis,there is no need to despair because there are also various sex position that guarantees penile stimulation of the G-spot such as the "woman on top" and the famous "doggy style".The missionary position doesn't allow for proper stimulation of the G-spot unless your partner is lying back with a few pillows propping her pelvis from under her butt.

Another perfect position for penile stimulation of the G-spot is the lap-dance position with the male sitting cross-legged and the female scooting unto his lap guiding his penis inside her vagina.The upward angle lets the guys penis stroke the front vaginal wall continuously; with the bodies of both partners wrapped tightly together.A final positions that allow penile stimulation is the side-to-side.

In conclusion,It is important to understand that women are different and what works with one woman may not work with another so you have to be open to exploring and discovering what technique works best with your partner.

NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION AND HOW TO STAY HEALTHY

Is masturbation a healthy sexual behavior This is one question that a lot of guys have battled with secretly over time.There seem to be so much fuss about the suppose dangers of masturbation going around. Most people from a spiritual perspective have condemned this act and argued that it is a sin before God. However,there are people who believe masturbation is neither a sin nor is it an abnormal sexual behavior. These people have pointed out that masturbation is quite beneficial to the body helping to burn calories and boost self confidence.Others have hinted that masturbation can be very helpful in situations where one partner in a relationship is ill and may also helps strike a balance in cases where one partner needs more sexual activities than the other. They claim that masturbation has no negative effects unless it is done excessively.

Frequent and excessive masturbation is said to have both psychological and physiological side effects that could be harmful to the individuals health and cause physical changes to the body.Some of these side effects include Weak Erection, Premature Ejaculation, Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity ,Testicular Pain, Impotence in extreme cases and loss of hair.

How then does one know when masturbation becomes too much?What are the symptoms that one might experience?

Some the known reasons why people masturbate include:
To experience pleasure
To relieve tension (sexual tension or general tension)
To relieve stress
To engage in sex when a partner is unavailable or does not want to have sex
To relax
To learn about what feels good to them and how they like to be stimulated or pleasured


Excessive masturbation can lead to symptoms like stress, fatigue, and memory loss,youthful impotence/erectile dysfunction and seminal leakage which can cause sperm to leak out from the penis even when there is no erection.To overcome this side effects it is advisable to keep ejaculation down to two or three times a week while you masturbate.Sexual activity can be experienced more often if one learns how to achieve orgasm without ejaculation. Accordingly achieving orgasm without ejaculation stores bioenergy and makes penis firmer, hence your erections last longer and the volume one ejaculates is bigger.over-ejaculation stimulates parasympathetic nervous functions, which results in the over production of sex hormones known as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin.Additionally,the liver's ability to release enzymes that aid in hormone production is affected. As a result, the brain and adrenal glands produce too much dopamine, norepinephrine, epinephrine, and other hormones and neural transmitters.

In conclusion,it is important to say again that masturbation is a perfectly normal sexual behavior for both males and females and it helps you become more comfortable with your sexuality.However,like everything that has a good side masturbation also has its bad sides. Hence the secret for overcoming is to know when to get off by avoiding any addiction or excessive abuse which might be very harmful to the individual.

ENHANCING MALE SEXUAL PERFORMANCE

In enhancing sexual performance in males the use of natural herbs,fruits and foods have been proven to be the best methods.Although,other methods such as the use of marijuana,pills and other substance have been known to be also effective,however, the side effects of using these are far more than the benefits.Enhancing sexual performance is largely dependent on the flow of blood and prostate health.There is more to the males genitals than the penis and testicles.The prostate is a very important gland that lies just behind the bladder.This gland is the organ responsible for the volume of semen produced during ejaculation thus it is very important that adequate attention is giving to it.

There are two significant and natural ways to enhance sexual performance in males which are basically regular exercise to increase the flow of blood and eating well.For the sake of this article,I intend to give a larger focus to eating food that are rich in nutrients.Often time in a bid to reduce the level of cholesterol males tend to cut down on the intake of animal products which are known to contain essential nutrients vital to sexual performance. Animal proteins are well known to contain omega-3and omega-6 which are essential fatty acids that are very good for the nervous system. eggs, meats, and oily fish such as sardines and salmon, Seafood which also contains zinc said to be the nutrient of virility are key animal products that help boost the nervous system.

However,not only animal products are effective for enhancing sexual performance in males. Food such as Beans,Soy products,Almonds,Walnuts,Oats are known to enhance the production of nitric oxide in the body.This chemical which also contains amino acids is released in small amounts and vital to both healthy blood vessels and the ability to get an erection. Also,fruits and vegetables which are known to be sources of bioflavonoids perform the tasks of antioxidants to fight against pollutants in the body such as cigarette smokes and pesticides.Research has shown that natural antioxidants are healthier for keeping the heart in a good condition.Berries,Sunflower seeds,Pomegranates,Ginger,Citrus fruits,Beans, Kale,Red cabbage,Artichoke,Brussels sprouts,Spinach,Garlic are some of the foods that can help build up your antioxidant level.

Other foods to help boost sexual performance:

Anthocyanidins found in berries, cherries, grapes, fruit skins and true fruit juices
Catechins found in true teas (not herbal teas)
Flavanones found in citrus food sources
Flavones found in grains, celery, parsley and other herbs
Flavonols found in grapefruit, oranges, apple kin, berries, onions, endive, radishes, tomatoes, leeks, broccoli and red wine.
riboflavin found in banana
androsterone found in celery
dopamine found in raw oysters
folic acid found in avocado

MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP A HAPPY ONE

The need for lovers to create happiness in their relationships is one that can not be over emphasized given the times we live in because of the hectic nature of our careers, complications from living in big cities,family and relationship pressure etc. It is no news that a lot of people may have an unrealistic idea of what a relationship should entail and this furthermore,has led to the breakdown of so many.It is wrong to think that being in a relationship should automatically guaranty your happiness just as it is wrong to expect anybody including your partner to be responsible for making you happy.Relationships are not meant to complete you or make you whole rather people who have experienced true happiness in their relationships are those who go into it already complete and share their lives with their partners interdependently.

Creating happiness in your relationship with your partner has so many benefits to the both of you and its important that as a guy you create the platform for your partner to feel the warmth and affection of being loved at all times.As a guy you must learn to make good on your words.Never make a promise you do not intend to keep as this could make your partner lose confidence in you greatly,however,it is possible that sometimes you may fail to keep a promise you have made to your partner because of certain reasons beyond your control.At such times it is very ideal that you are humble enough to admit your mistake and apologize to your partner.In a situation where you keep making same mistake and apologizing for same thing over again it may not be acceptable unless your partner sees that you are actually committed to making a genuine change and as such you might want to seek her help to make the desired change.Every relationship has disagreements and the key to overcoming them is to resolve to push through the hard times together instead of allowing resentment fester.Talk over your disagreement and be realistic about your expectations from your partner.Listen to her when and if she needs to talk to you.It is very important to a woman that her man pays attention and listens to her when she needs to talk about her problems.Most times she might not need you to do any thing or help solve the problem but having someone to talk to who is truly sympathetic to her problem is all she might need.


Most guys do not understand that there is a remarkable difference between knowing and feeling affection.You might be telling your partner how much you love her and expect that she knows that you do love her but without showing her with your action it might not be possible that she feels this.Thus,you must put your affection to show love.Do things for her that she never expect.Never get tired of showing physical affection with the little kisses,hugs and massage.Expressing your feelings for her is key,let her know she can rely on your loyalty and be open to her at all times.If she is going through hard times at work try to encourage her to success.This shows that you care about her future and desire the best for her.However,you must also learn to respect her privacy and space,never spy or monitor her activities through phone or social media.It shows that you do not trust her and if she happens to be innocent and finds out you have been doing that you might lose her trust as well.


It is also important that you learn the benefits of playing together. Partners who play together stay together.Laughter is a key ingredient for promoting happiness in your relationship and the more you laugh together the closer you become.There is nothing as romantic as taking your partner out on a date even if you have been together for a long time,try doing something new and exciting together.Always devote time for your partner.take up a hobby together as this will help you grow your bond and above all adopt better communication in your relationship,use words such as "please" and "thank you".You must also watch how you address your partner and most importantly during argument express your point across in a loving, respectful way that doesn't seek to hurt your partner.

TIPS FOR A ROMANTIC DATE WITH LITTLE CASH

Alright guys,lets take out time to tackle one very important issue that seem to be a major problem for guys who date older women.This is no other problem than money.guys who date older women in most cases do not often have a solid financial backing to sustain themselves nor a relationship.knowing that these women might be used to expensive treats from guys who have made a successful career can be intimidating sometimes. Although,we know that in most cases guys who date older women can be short on cash compared to the women,this is not a reason for a guy not to give his woman a treat every now and then.

Most guys have the idea that giving a woman a great time requires a lot of money.This is because they are keen on impressing the women beyond their financial capacity.However,the truth is that as a guy dating an older woman especially if you are not a rich guy,you do not need so much money to give your partner a nice treat mostly because she already knows your financial status and does not require you to try to impress her beyond what you can afford. Females who date younger men in most cases have been there,seen it and done it all,they have had a fill of the grandiose lifestyle that successful guys have to throw at them and if they have chosen to be with you then its most unlikely because of money or expensive gifts.

As a guy who intends to take an older woman out on a date you have to consider that she may not feel comfortable hanging out with you and the rest of your team in the regular pubs mostly because of her age.However,you do not need to take her to a five star hotel or a posh restaurant either to have a great time.Find out if she likes to engage in outdoor activities such as hiking,swimming or even fishing.A romantic picnic while camping by a lake is a great idea and she would love the serenity and stillness of the lake.Also,you can even stay at home and invite her over for a homemade dinner or cook something new together,this will give you enough time to play with the food and she is bound to cherish the experience. Aside from cooking together there is nothing a woman loves as much as breakfast in bed.every woman has seen this in a movie or at least read about a romantic breakfast in bed after a great night and secretly waits for a man that will treat her to same.You will always win her heart with this but if you happen to be a guy who can not cook,you can take our time to get breakfast from a restaurant for the two of you while she is still asleep and then bring it to her in bed.

Finally,you could try giving her a foot massage or paint her nails.This will make her feel pampered and you will both have something to laugh about.every woman wants to feel special and it doesn't have to be an expensive gift from you to achieve this,so long as you are taking out the time to do these things she would love you for it.

WHY WOMEN FIND BAD BOYS IRRESISTIBLE

Have you ever asked why women find bad boys attractive?As a nice guy who is mostly a gentleman with the ladies you may wonder why you do not attract the most women.While they probably keep you in the friendship zone.It is the guys with jerk-like attitudes that actually get the attention of these women. Basically,selfish "jerk" behaviors may sound unhealthy but normally triggers the needed emotions in a woman to make her feel irresistible attraction.

So why are the  girls attracted to boys who are world-class douche bags?

There are certain personality traits of the bad boy that women feel attracted to.It is important to note here that women aren't attracted to the abusive,mean and negative part of the bad boy personality.unpredictability, uncontrollability, challenging dominance,these are few of the qualities that a bad boy possesses that women find attractive and thus make them willing to turn a blind eye to other abusive traits of the bad boy.These traits,when channeled correctly trigger the natural attraction mechanism inside the woman. Furthermore this is not to say that nice guys do not get women attracted to them.The reason most nice guys seem to have problems with women isn't because they are nice.Rather,it is because of all the other traits they may possess such as being physically and emotionally clingy, overly sensitive, and just over-all pushovers treating everyone nicely even those who are rude and inconsiderate because they are in constant need of approval from other people which strikes the ladies as a lack of strong personality or identity.

Therefore,its important for you as a guy to have your own time and space and dreams and plans and stick to them.It is necessary for you as a guy to discover your values and know what you want.creating your own character even if nobody likes you.the important thing is for you to have an identity and know what it is that you want out of life.do not try to impress anyone by compromising who you are or trying to change for someone.never loose sight of yourself.you must bring yourself to the point where you do everything with a purpose.It will also help if you are current with issues happening around by reading and mixing with people who real purpose in life and know what they want.make yourself, your life and your time a priority. try not to care too much or worry unnecessarily over who you have impressed,who likes you and who hates you and just go ahead with living your life.you owe no one any explanations for how you live your life and the things you do that makes you happy neither do you need peoples approval to be yourself.this makes you look timid and passive. always take the lead and never wait for anybody to tell you what to do or where to go as a man.

A good quality of the bad boy is honesty about what they want.If a "bad" boy likes a girl, he will show her with no doubt in his mind while a nice guy tends to hide his interest and mostly end up in the "friend zone".A bad boy might stare at a girls chest , while a nice guy tries to sneak a peak in.yet,above everything else you must be independent with yourself and your own company.Always find ways to create your own fun and you will realize the less you need people the more people will need you.Always value yourself.your opinion about yourself is the only opinion that really matters.The most important part of having self respect is to not put up with people, men and women, who are disrespectful toward you, your family or friends.

HOW TO COPE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A CAREER WOMAN

One thing about relationship with a career woman is that most of them may not have the much time needed for their partners because of the huge responsibilities they might have to their work,friends and in some cases kids.Although work is important as humans,however, it becomes a problem when it takes the most part of a persons life and affects their relationship with their partners.For a guy who is new to dating older women you might find this a bit difficult to stomach and feel that your partner may not care enough about you.This is because older women unlike their younger counterparts who may have lots of free time to spend with you have very active and busy lives.


In dating an older woman therefore,there are a lot of things you will need to put up with about her lifestyle that you probably never experienced dating a young girl.It is important that you understand the pressures that goes with her work.You must know before hand what her job entails as well as other commitment she might have that might keep her away from you most of the time.Its wrong for you to expect her to cut down her workload if you already knew and agreed with putting up with her responsibilities from the beginning.however,if there is need for some adjustment it should be brought up in a positive way and you can both come up with creative solutions.Nagging and complaining will not do you any good because when you are often angry with your partner then its almost unlikely that she would want to find constructive ways of solving the problem with you.

It is very wrong to compare or compete with you friends who you think may have enough time to spend with their partners.Instead you should appreciate the time you have and share with your partner and try to make this as sweet and special as you can instead of using it to fight and argue.Try to establish non-negotiable time for the both of you to do something together.This time could be used to watch a movie,share a walk,cook a meal together however,the most important thing is that you both agree on it.Using scolding as a reinforcement to get her to spend time with you will not do a good job instead give her a great reason to slow down and spend some time with you.Always try to be tactical without blaming or broaching the issue with resentment.It will only give her reasons to fight back.

Finally,above everything else it is important to make the time you spend together count.It is always better if you have something you are doing that will keep you busy.Most young men feel there isn't much need for a job and see their relationship with an older woman as their career.This is one reason they might feel a stronger attachment to their partner than is necessary.

EFFECT OF SIZE OF THE PENIS IN FEMALE SEXUAL SATISFACTION

For a lot of guys the size of the penis is a reason to worry because they feel that the size of the penis actually has a lot to do with female satisfaction during sexual intercourse. Although research has shown that the size of the penis has little or no effect on sexual satisfaction for a woman.As a matter of fact,if there are any effects at all it will be basically psychological.

Yet a lot of guys still hold unto the idea that a big penis is far more preferable to a small one and argue that the larger the size of the penis the more pleasure a woman gets during sex.This thought has forced so many guys to find ways of enlarging their penis with the use of pills and other penis enlargement solutions.The size of the mans penis through out the history of sex has been known to impact tremendously on his confidence and self esteem.most guys in their subconscious believe that a large penis is needed to give their partners the desired pleasure and sensation and may feel inferior for possessing a small penis.

But the question is, what do women truly desire?Does the penis size count for much when it comes to the issue of sex?if size actually counts,then which is more preferable;length or width?

The importance of the size of the penis varies from one female to another.While some may choose length over width,others may argue that a long penis could cause pain and discomfort during sexual intercourse and they prefer the width because it gives the woman a greater feeling of fullness.Also the width at the base of the penis may be more stimulating to the clitoris and this amounts to greater pleasure.It is imperative to understand the anatomy of the vagina in order to understand in full the effect the penis might have on sexual performance and satisfaction. According to expert studies,the opening of the vagina carries the highest concentration of nerve endings.This is the area where the woman experiences intense arousal when she is stimulated.Upon insertion of the penis into the vagina the woman experiences pleasurable sensation thus making a deeper penetration of no benefits.

The labia manora and majora are the most sensitive part of the vagina openings that first sense the penis upon insertion into the vagina.both of these opening hold the highest concentration of sensitive nerve endings designed for sexual pleasure and makes it possible for a small size penis to give pleasure to a woman unless the penis is microscopic.

HOW TO COPE IN A SECRET ROMANCE

Most women who date younger men some times like to keep the relationship a secret.This could be because these women are mainly interested in experimenting and knowing how it feels to date a younger man.Some others however,may just not be comfortable being seen with their younger lover in public because of the unrealistic perception of society as what should be the standard for a relationship between a man and a woman.People tend to see older women who date younger men as desperate but do not see anything wrong with older men who date girls young enough to be their grand daughters.Though many guys find such secret romance acceptable,a great number of guys do not share this sentiment.

As a guy who is in a relationship with an older woman that prefers to keep the romance a secret you may not like it but that shouldn't stop you from enjoying your relationship and having a good time with your partner.The first thing you should have is an understanding of the situation.It is unwise to assume that your partner is cheating on you because she is not as open as you want her to be in public with your relationship.Therefore,you should rather talk to her to find out her reasons for wanting to keep the romance a secret.

Sometimes,women who keep secret romance do this because they fear that the guys they are dating may not be serious about a future with them.The message you convey with your body language and actions as a guy speaks louder to a woman than your words.She will only be comfortable with you when and if you are comfortable with yourself.Confidence plays a key role in getting her to come out of her shells.If you are a guy who gets tossed by the wind of public opinion when it comes to making decisions about your personal life she might find it very difficult to introduce you to friends and relatives as her lover.It is therefore,important that you know exactly what you want and how to go about it without giving listening ears to the voice of other people.

Have a vacation together.A trip to a different city where either one of you have people who know or care about you might just be all that she needs to loosen up.It is also important to be clear about your purpose and intentions.If you tell a woman that you want a future with her as your partner then your actions should compliment your words.Be confident enough to introduce her to your friends and family as your lover and be firm about your choice.This will help her gain confidence in you.

Women who prefer secret romance with their young lovers are most times very sensitive with their feelings and emotions far more than the women who do not care about the opinions of other people when it comes to issues regarding their personal lives.mostly,these women are often new to dating younger men and prefer to study and watch carefully before making a public declaration of love for their partners.Once she begins to see that your intentions are genuine and your feelings for her are true she will begin to take bold steps towards releasing all of herself to you.You must therefore,learn the virtue of patience and apply wisdom and maturity.

It is particularly more difficult nowadays with people sharing their relationship experience with their lovers on Facebook, Twitter and other social media network so you might feel left out of the "fun" because your partner prefers to keep your relationship a secret but do not despair.All you need is to ask yourself why you want to be in the bandwagon in the first place.If you truly care about your partner then your priority would be to make her happy and comfortable not showing off to impress other people on the internet with photographs.Most importantly,you must continue to show your partner love always because love is the greatest force to changing any situation for better.

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX!

Today we are taking a look into the beautiful subject of sex.No doubt sex plays a very important function in the love relationship between a man and a woman.one which some people however, claim is overrated, but, overrated or not it is clear that sex has caused the breakdown of many relationship either as a result of too much demand for it or an outright lack of it.thus,the subject is one which must not be avoided because of its important nature.furthermore,there are a few areas I would like to focus attention in a bid to illuminate peoples mind about the roles and importance of sex in a relationship.

Sex as a tool:

For a long time in the history of human existence sex has been used as a relationship builder or "tool" to express love,passion and companionship.It has been very effective for this purpose and a lot of relationships have survived collapse as a result of an improvement in sexual activities between couples.It is no news that couples who are sexually attracted to themselves have been discovered to be a lot more happier than couples whose sexual attraction for one another have faded over time.

Sex for some people have been used to relief stress and clear heavy thoughts from their minds.For others however,sex is just another way of having fun and wrapping up a great night out.Yet one thing all these people share in common is that they all use sex as a tool to stimulate positive energy in their minds and bodies to create pleasurable feelings.

Therefore,now that we mentioned that sex can be used as a tool for creating pleasure,it is imperative that we talk about the wrong usage of this tool especially by the males.It is unarguable that women tend to have a better understanding of love making compared to the men.For most guys sex is all about getting an erection and banging a woman hard just as they have seen in porn.however,this notion is very wrong about making love to a woman in the real world.Its true that women sometimes want hard thrusting and ass slapping but they also crave tenderness because they thrive more on emotions and feelings.The power of foreplay and after play can not be underestimated in making love to a woman.It is important that you give attention to her body and try to find out where she likes to be touched without necessarily distracting her with words in any form.actions they say speak louder than words so if she is enjoying whatever you are doing to her body you wont need her words to know that.

Just as important as touching a woman also is kissing.There are so many sensitive spot in a woman's body that a kiss will bring alive during sex.It is always advisable to start from the top and work your way down the bottom with slow kisses to her forehead her lips,her neck,her shoulders, breast and nipples,down to her belly button and finally her vagina.Now,this is the spot I like to talk about because a lot of guys have issues with going down south for certain reasons and excuses.I have nothing against these guys but as a guy who does it or intend doing it then it is important that you apply the correct tactics to give your woman the highest pleasure that she craves.below are a few tricks you might find helpful as a guy.

#Work your way down slowly:

Do not rush it.slowly and steadily kiss her stomach and watch her as she lays on her back studying her body reaction to each kiss.get close enough giving the impression you are going straight for her vagina but do not give in just yet.warm her up before you proceed to take of her underwear.kiss her thigh and her stomach alternatively.

#Stay at the top:

When you are ready to zero in on her vagina after removing her underwear,tease her with your tongue.it is better to lick from bottom to top.lick the outer edges of her labia then gently spread them and lick the inner lips as though you were still teasing her.she will respond by spreading her legs more or squeezing your head with her thighs.This is a good sign so do not worry.

#Keep her clits in focus:

Rotate the tip of your tongue around her clitoris and suck on her clits gently.when in doubt about the best strokes to approach the clitoris then try writing letters of the alphabet with your tongue or spelling words.This offers a wider variety of approach.

#Introduce your fingers:

Once you successfully get her attention with rotating your tongue around her clitoris and sucking her clits then you should move on to the next level by inserting your thumb to substitute your tongue in swirling her clitoris.penetrating her with either your index or middle finger and making a "come here" notion is a perfect way of locating her G-spot which is key.As you do this also insert the length of your tongue deep inside her pussy as much as you can and lick up and down with your finger still inside her.

#Continue with your tongue and finger:

It is important that you maintain eye contact as you suck her around her clits and use your finger to stimulate her G-spot.when you discover she is wetter then its time to increase the number of fingers.some women like up to three or more fingers but most prefer two.however,keep making the "come here"gesture with your finger while increasing the pressure and speed for as long as necessary with your tongue complimenting the effort of your fingers.After she reaches climax the clitoris is very sensitive so you must reduce the intensity of your licking at this point and slowly kiss your way back up to her lips as she pants with delight.You will be sure to receive a gentleman's reward ;).

DEALING WITH THE "EX-FACTOR"

The ex-factor can sometimes be a very serious problem when dating an older woman who has partial attachment to her ex.Did you just ask how possible it is for a woman to be partially attached to her ex?well,the answer to that is quite simple,when you are in a relationship with an older woman who has kids with her ex there are always some kind of attachment between them through their kids.Most guys find this difficult to deal with especially in a situation where your partner and her ex have to take the kids out and you are practically not invited for such trips.

A lot of guys allow jealousy creep in the way not because they do not trust their partners but because they only think about their needs.this may further result into arguments and fights between they and their partners.However,what these guys fail to realize is that a woman who has to go on such outing with her ex will do anything to avoid it if it were possible.In most cases they can hardly wait for these meetings to be over so they can get to find comfort in the arms of their young lovers.So as a guy in such a situation you do not want to be seen as the bad guy since your partners ex already has that well covered.

Women who are put in these situation and forced to spend time with their ex because of their kids are often very bitter about such arrangement but in most cases they are compelled to because it is the decision of the court as part of the divorce arrangement.Deep in their heart however,they loathe their ex with a passion and are filled with regrets over meeting and having anything to do with them in the first place.The best way to act in such situation is to always remain calm and understanding.there is the tendency for her to be upset before and after every meeting with her ex.Sometimes they might even get into an argument over issues concerning their kids.whatever you do in such situation even though your loyalty is to her never pass judgement on her ex. she could have been the one with the problem in the first place and she knows it.trying to take sides with her and condemning her ex shows you are bias and untruthful and she might not like that even if she doesn't tell you.so,all you should do is to be as comforting as you can be without letting your own jealousy get in the way.You don't have to lie about your true feelings though but so long as you do not act based on your hurt or your jealousy then you will never have problems.

7 HABITS THAT CAN HARM YOUR CHANCES...

Its a popular saying that one mans meat is another mans poison.This is very true when it comes to the issue of habits which is best described as something a person does always without thinking, especially something that is hard for that person to stop doing.Habits can be either good or bad depending on the effect they have on the individuals life.for the purpose of this post however,I would like us to look into certain habits that are known to have adverse effects on relationship.

SMOKING (CIGARETTES):

Smoking is one very addictive habit that has ruined chances of many relationships and health. A lot of people do not find anything wrong with smoking and many women do not mind dating a guy who smokes. However,a great number of women also can not stand cigarettes.As a guy you must know what the woman you are trying to date feels about smoking.If she is someone who hates cigarettes then you should try to avoid smoking whenever you are together.

DRINKING (ALCOHOL):

Next on the list and perhaps to some people even worse than cigarettes is alcohol.Although a lot of people are able to hold their liquor and act responsibly when they drink so many others do not share this quality.A guy who gets drunk with alcohol all the time will find it difficult maybe impossible to maintain his dignity and pride because people are known to do the unimaginable when they are drunk.Therefore,as a gentleman,you must never under any circumstance be caught drunk in public.

LYING:

some people are born liars,they lie about everything and anything.Such guys can never be trusted with the truth and trust is the foundation for every relationship.

PROFANITY:

Most guys find it hard to speak for 5 minutes without using a foul word.such behavior creates the impression that such people lack decent manner.learn to control what you say by choosing your words carefully.As a guy who wants to be perceived as decent and well groomed you must not be found using words and languages that portrays you in a negative light. Not everybody accepts bad words as standard for communication.

BREAKING PROMISES:

If you are a person who always fails to keep a promise its a very bad habit and shows you can not be reliable and dependable.Never make promises you can not keep.

DRUGS:

The use of drugs has never been more rampant in history than it is today.everyone seems to be involved in this destructive habit with reckless abandon irrespective of age or sex.There are practically no good sides of taking drugs and the result are often very harmful.

These 7 are just a few of the many habits that could ruin your chances of having and sustaining a great relationship with a beautiful woman.They all pose as a great danger not only to your relationship and but also in some cases to your health as well.The choice is yours to either control your habits or allow your habits control you.

UNIQUE COMPLEXITY OF THE WOMAN AND SIMPLE MISTAKES GUYS MAKE

Guys the biggest mistake you will ever make about women is to assume you know entirely what they want.such assumptions has led a great number of guys to their fall.As a guy you will never know what women really want,even women do not know what they want themselves.you disagree?well,have you ever heard a woman complaining one day about how useless men are and that relationships can be such a total waste of time and then the next day you find the same woman on a dating website seeking men for a serious relationship?that just explain how confused they can be about what they want sometimes.So,as a guy it will do you absolutely no good to assume you know everything about what women want.

Women are designed in a very complex way but once you get to understand this, then you will always do above average in your relationship which is remarkably good considering the fact that you can never fully understand any woman.There are slight differences however when it comes to relationships between older women and gigolos.Older women who date younger men understand what they are looking for in a relationship even better than the guys who mostly think about the money they can get for sex. For an older woman the benefits of her dating a younger man is always very clear especially if such a woman has been dating younger men for a long time. These women can smell bullshit from a mile a way and they always have their priorities laid out before going into the relationship.they never do anything without thinking it through thoroughly. irrationality is not one of their characteristics-in other words,they have their emotions in check always.The best way to get along with these women is to assume you know nothing about women and get them to talk about what they need,you will be surprised how clueless you were when they open up.

The mind of a woman is truly complex and even though she might be delicate she could be tough as well.Many guys do not fully comprehend this about women yet and consider them to be weak with the believe that when a woman starts to talk about her problems and challenges it automatically becomes their responsibility to rescue such women.This is a very dangerous step for a guy to take.before trying to rescue her always find out if that's what she wants you to do.just because she is talking to you about a situation doesn't mean she wants you to step in and take charge of it.women are known to be more expressive with words than men and most times all they just want you to do is to listen to them talk. The key however,is to relate with each woman individually.Do not assume because some other woman you dated had certain preference for some things that every woman should be like that.Each woman is unique and must be seen from that angle.she must be able to express herself in her own way while you must be open to new experience.Finally,whatever you do,never compare her to your ex-girlfriends,your mother or any other woman. keep these simple facts in mind and put them into practice everyday and be sure you will continually enjoy your relationship.