HELPING YOUR WOMAN BUILD HER SEXUAL SELF ESTEEM

The idea that a woman can sometimes lack sexual self esteem is one that comes as a surprise to many men especially because most of these women have real sexual appealing looks with the way they dress,the shapes of their bodies and even their charisma. During sex for instance,many women find themselves sometimes criticizing their every move and feeling they may not be on their A-game. This could lead to a lose-lose situation for both parties because when a woman doesn't feel pleasure from having sex it weighs down on the mans self esteem and ego which is why you need to know how to get your woman back into the game by learning to boost her self esteem.

Sexy is a state of mind.If a woman, does not like herself inside and out, it is very difficult for her to share herself freely and fully with her man and this could create a vacuum in their sex life. Therefore,the more educated about a womans body you are as a man the more you are able to get her back in the game when you sense a disconnect. Women reach their sexual peak later in life than men,for many women, it can take years to figure out not only what feels good, but also to build up the confidence to communicate their desires with their partners. Most women still do not feel comfortable with their genitals and do not feel like their vulvas are their most attractive feature this is why her man must let her know how much he totally worship her body, the way she taste, smell and move, and chances are that she will start to loosen up and get out of her head and back into her body (and her sexual self-esteem will rise, too)making her more comfortable.


Also patience is key for guys to help their partners overcome low sexual self esteem and this is because even though it takes the average man about three minutes to have an orgasm,women on the other hand need about twenty minutes of direct clitoral stimulation to have theirs. A situation where a woman feels pressured to have an orgasm can be much of a buzz kill during sexual intercourse. The more relaxed women feel during love making the better they function because its really about the state of the mind and just because she isn't having an orgasm yet doesn't mean she's not actually having a great time.The sexuality of a woman is product of her mindset and  Having healthy, positive and productive thoughts, core beliefs, feelings, and attitudes helps in building a solid sexy foundation for her to thrive. In most cases,women who lack sexual self esteem have been programmed by society and their parents especially their mothers to believe that women are not to be sexually active and because their minds have been fed with such orientation for a long period it becomes very difficult sometimes to get them to break off even when they are married.

The importance and benefits of helping your woman build her sexual self esteem can not be underplayed because it will help create more intimacy and a stronger bond in your relationship apart from the pleasurable benefits that you will both achieve which will also bring joy and satisfaction in other areas of your lives.