How can I date someone who is making more money than me? This the very question that most young men worry about too often especially in a situation where they would never admit the truth for fear of loosing their target (miss moneybags). Well,the smart guys never worry about this because they know the rules of engagement. This article will help you keep up in the race without feeling outgunned even though you already know the truth.
First,whatever you do,never lie about your financial status to a richer woman but do not admit you are broke either. The secret is to keep a mysterious persona. There are over a million ways to make any woman happy without spending your money if you actually have any. A richer woman is not going to need you to support her financially or buy her a pretty dress either so you don't have to worry about spending. Rather,focus your energy on creating beautiful experiences that she couldn't buy with her money. The truth is as a rich woman she can buy herself so many nice things and there are probably so many guys who will be willing to give her expensive gifts without putting time and effort into creating that magic in the moment that will melt her heart.
It is very important that you keep up a good appearance always. The idea is to use what you have to your advantage and since you don't need to have a million dollars in your bank account to work out around your home then you can actually impress her with a toned body as clothes will look better on you even if they aren't expensive designer suits. Also,dressing in a color like white makes you seem richer than you truly are on paper. Find out where important people hang out such as an exclusive fitness center or the country club and find a way to get in there. Remember,the idea is to put the thought in her head that you are an important person even if you are not. So,hanging out where important people hang out will help drive the impression even if you don't say a word.
Once you have the woman's attention then you can walk up to her with confidence and introduce yourself. Make small talks and try to find out what she likes and always pay attention to every little detail. if you work as an "office assistant" to the director of a company for instance,you might want to make your position sound prestigious a little by calling it "executive assistant" and if you happen to be a guy without a job then it is helpful if you have a career of your own. Saying you are a freelance photographer or journalist or studying to be one makes you sound ambitious and women love men that are driven and ambitious. Even if you are broke now, they want to be certain that investing their attention in you will not become futile in the end. Learn to talk to her in a way others don't by never sucking up to her because of her wealth. Treat her like you would treat any other person after all she is flesh and blood and wants to feel like one otherwise,you will lose her attention by becoming intimidated by her fat wallet.
The secret for dating richer women is to actually date them and this is where most guys have troubles because then they think they have to spend money which they mostly never have to impress these women but the truth is you don't have to take her to the finest restaurants to win her heart. Take her to places that are free such as the park,a walk on the beach or even a home made candlelit dinner would spark the magic. Its all about giving her an experience which others will not and making her feel special too. Help her to feel relaxed in your company by making her laugh and have fun and you will slowly warm your way into her heart.
Finally,whatever you do,never forget to rock her world in the bedroom.
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