Sunday 19 May 2013

HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX


Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired their female partners to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just as much as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex lacks good morals and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.When you are together,the trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft jazz music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.


HOW TO GET YOUR WOMAN TO INITIATE SEX

Whether they admit it or not every guy at one point or the other has desired the female partner to make the first move when it comes to sex. I mean come to think of it,we all know women love sex and enjoy it just the same way as the guy,right? So why do most women find it so difficult to let their men know when they are in the mood to have sex? Generally,women have been programmed by society and in some cases,their parents to believe that a woman who initiates sex is a slut and with this sort of orientation it is likely that guys will continue to take the first step as when it comes to sex or be faced with celibacy forever.

The good news however,is that you can learn how to change that and get your partner to initiate sex half the time. The secret is knowing what to do and how to go about it.Take for example,Have you ever listened to a woman complain when her man fails to meet up to his sexual responsibilities? Well,this will surprise most people but women know they don't have to initiate sex because they believe the guys will eventually handle that part and then they can choose whether to comply or not to give in. The way to turn things around is to lead her on and then hold back. In a situation where you have sex a certain number of times a week she is probably programmed to expect that amount of intercourse.The trick is to tease her subtly with passionate kisses, sensual massages while you caress her softly and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. This requires a lot of discipline but as you continue this for a week you will completely drive her up the wall and soon she will be all over you like a bee that found honey.

Because most women think as a woman initiating sex is a taboo, a lot of them might not be too eager to appear cheap. Therefore,there is a pressing need for a reorientation of the mind which is where sexual conversation comes into play. create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere for your partner to be able to tell you her innermost sexual desires and fantasies. It is important to get her mind working in the right direction so you must give her lots of positive reinforcement for every effort she makes. You could try to set the scene by lighting a few candles with soft music to compliment the tasty food and great wine.This will help you seduce her mind. Unknown to many men seduction is more powerful and effective when it is directed to affect the mind. Use your words to fill her mind with sensual and sexual images that only your touch or kiss would not achieve. Once you have succeeded in filling her mind then you can begin the sensory seduction with your touch.

Finally,you must continue to look good.Do not stop taking care of yourself because you are now in a long-term relationship or because you are now very comfortable with your partner.It is important that you dress neat,keep a clean appearance and great hygiene  Nobody will be eager to kiss a guy with "shit" breath. The more you continue to look your best the more she will be attracted to you.



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