Today we are taking a look into the beautiful subject of sex.No doubt sex plays a very important function in the love relationship between a man and a woman.one which some people however, claim is overrated, but, overrated or not it is clear that sex has caused the breakdown of many relationship either as a result of too much demand for it or an outright lack of it.thus,the subject is one which must not be avoided because of its important nature.furthermore,there are a few areas I would like to focus attention in a bid to illuminate peoples mind about the roles and importance of sex in a relationship.
Sex as a tool:
For a long time in the history of human existence sex has been used as a relationship builder or "tool" to express love,passion and companionship.It has been very effective for this purpose and a lot of relationships have survived collapse as a result of an improvement in sexual activities between couples.It is no news that couples who are sexually attracted to themselves have been discovered to be a lot more happier than couples whose sexual attraction for one another have faded over time.
Sex for some people have been used to relief stress and clear heavy thoughts from their minds.For others however,sex is just another way of having fun and wrapping up a great night out.Yet one thing all these people share in common is that they all use sex as a tool to stimulate positive energy in their minds and bodies to create pleasurable feelings.
Therefore,now that we mentioned that sex can be used as a tool for creating pleasure,it is imperative that we talk about the wrong usage of this tool especially by the males.It is unarguable that women tend to have a better understanding of love making compared to the men.For most guys sex is all about getting an erection and banging a woman hard just as they have seen in porn.however,this notion is very wrong about making love to a woman in the real world.Its true that women sometimes want hard thrusting and ass slapping but they also crave tenderness because they thrive more on emotions and feelings.The power of foreplay and after play can not be underestimated in making love to a woman.It is important that you give attention to her body and try to find out where she likes to be touched without necessarily distracting her with words in any form.actions they say speak louder than words so if she is enjoying whatever you are doing to her body you wont need her words to know that.
Just as important as touching a woman also is kissing.There are so many sensitive spot in a woman's body that a kiss will bring alive during sex.It is always advisable to start from the top and work your way down the bottom with slow kisses to her forehead her lips,her neck,her shoulders, breast and nipples,down to her belly button and finally her vagina.Now,this is the spot I like to talk about because a lot of guys have issues with going down south for certain reasons and excuses.I have nothing against these guys but as a guy who does it or intend doing it then it is important that you apply the correct tactics to give your woman the highest pleasure that she craves.below are a few tricks you might find helpful as a guy.
#Work your way down slowly:
Do not rush it.slowly and steadily kiss her stomach and watch her as she lays on her back studying her body reaction to each kiss.get close enough giving the impression you are going straight for her vagina but do not give in just yet.warm her up before you proceed to take of her underwear.kiss her thigh and her stomach alternatively.
#Stay at the top:
When you are ready to zero in on her vagina after removing her underwear,tease her with your tongue.it is better to lick from bottom to top.lick the outer edges of her labia then gently spread them and lick the inner lips as though you were still teasing her.she will respond by spreading her legs more or squeezing your head with her thighs.This is a good sign so do not worry.
#Keep her clits in focus:
Rotate the tip of your tongue around her clitoris and suck on her clits gently.when in doubt about the best strokes to approach the clitoris then try writing letters of the alphabet with your tongue or spelling words.This offers a wider variety of approach.
#Introduce your fingers:
Once you successfully get her attention with rotating your tongue around her clitoris and sucking her clits then you should move on to the next level by inserting your thumb to substitute your tongue in swirling her clitoris.penetrating her with either your index or middle finger and making a "come here" notion is a perfect way of locating her G-spot which is key.As you do this also insert the length of your tongue deep inside her pussy as much as you can and lick up and down with your finger still inside her.
#Continue with your tongue and finger:
It is important that you maintain eye contact as you suck her around her clits and use your finger to stimulate her G-spot.when you discover she is wetter then its time to increase the number of fingers.some women like up to three or more fingers but most prefer two.however,keep making the "come here"gesture with your finger while increasing the pressure and speed for as long as necessary with your tongue complimenting the effort of your fingers.After she reaches climax the clitoris is very sensitive so you must reduce the intensity of your licking at this point and slowly kiss your way back up to her lips as she pants with delight.You will be sure to receive a gentleman's reward ;).
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