MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP A HAPPY ONE

The need for lovers to create happiness in their relationships is one that can not be over emphasized given the times we live in because of the hectic nature of our careers, complications from living in big cities,family and relationship pressure etc. It is no news that a lot of people may have an unrealistic idea of what a relationship should entail and this furthermore,has led to the breakdown of so many.It is wrong to think that being in a relationship should automatically guaranty your happiness just as it is wrong to expect anybody including your partner to be responsible for making you happy.Relationships are not meant to complete you or make you whole rather people who have experienced true happiness in their relationships are those who go into it already complete and share their lives with their partners interdependently.

Creating happiness in your relationship with your partner has so many benefits to the both of you and its important that as a guy you create the platform for your partner to feel the warmth and affection of being loved at all times.As a guy you must learn to make good on your words.Never make a promise you do not intend to keep as this could make your partner lose confidence in you greatly,however,it is possible that sometimes you may fail to keep a promise you have made to your partner because of certain reasons beyond your control.At such times it is very ideal that you are humble enough to admit your mistake and apologize to your partner.In a situation where you keep making same mistake and apologizing for same thing over again it may not be acceptable unless your partner sees that you are actually committed to making a genuine change and as such you might want to seek her help to make the desired change.Every relationship has disagreements and the key to overcoming them is to resolve to push through the hard times together instead of allowing resentment fester.Talk over your disagreement and be realistic about your expectations from your partner.Listen to her when and if she needs to talk to you.It is very important to a woman that her man pays attention and listens to her when she needs to talk about her problems.Most times she might not need you to do any thing or help solve the problem but having someone to talk to who is truly sympathetic to her problem is all she might need.


Most guys do not understand that there is a remarkable difference between knowing and feeling affection.You might be telling your partner how much you love her and expect that she knows that you do love her but without showing her with your action it might not be possible that she feels this.Thus,you must put your affection to show love.Do things for her that she never expect.Never get tired of showing physical affection with the little kisses,hugs and massage.Expressing your feelings for her is key,let her know she can rely on your loyalty and be open to her at all times.If she is going through hard times at work try to encourage her to success.This shows that you care about her future and desire the best for her.However,you must also learn to respect her privacy and space,never spy or monitor her activities through phone or social media.It shows that you do not trust her and if she happens to be innocent and finds out you have been doing that you might lose her trust as well.


It is also important that you learn the benefits of playing together. Partners who play together stay together.Laughter is a key ingredient for promoting happiness in your relationship and the more you laugh together the closer you become.There is nothing as romantic as taking your partner out on a date even if you have been together for a long time,try doing something new and exciting together.Always devote time for your partner.take up a hobby together as this will help you grow your bond and above all adopt better communication in your relationship,use words such as "please" and "thank you".You must also watch how you address your partner and most importantly during argument express your point across in a loving, respectful way that doesn't seek to hurt your partner.